Eccl 7:3 (NKJV) "3 Sorrow is better than laughter,For by a sad countenance the heart is made better."

     Whenever we have a moment in our life that brings hurt and pain sometimes within that moment it is an opportunity for our heart to be made better.  A sad heart has a refining moment within our heart and lives.  Sometimes through the sad times we start praying more or really start to find God, then we start reflecting on our own life and those around us.  Sometimes if a moments hits us hard we start to embrace family and friends instead of taking days with our loved one for granted.  We all will experience hard times so when we do let's be refined to be better and not bitter.  Let the moment help you and use it to draw closer to God, you will enjoy your Many Blessings.