Col 3:13 (NKJV) "13 bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do."

     So many times we go through life and we get hurt by others and we have a tendency to hold that against them.  In a time of a loved one passing away this holding against others plays a big role in how we grieve.  I have seen many struggle of letting a loved one go because they didn't have a chance to ask for forgiveness or a chance to forgive that person.  We should live life to the fullest and make allowance for each others faults, or bear with one another.  We need to keep in mind that God has forgiven us and we should forgive others.  Don't allow your unforgiving heart  to stand in the way of your happiness with your friends and family, don't wait until it's too late to try to seek that forgiveness.  Forgive as God has forgiven you and live life to the fullest.  Many Blessings to you.